What does this mean exactly to people? As I sat with a friend the other day , he said to me" it is just her nature" I replied "well actually it is more a learned behavior." He arguable stated no she is just like that. and on and on. He is a smart guy, a typical responsible citizen, yet he along with so many people still walk around thinking that everyone just is as they are. That there is nothing or very little anyone can do about the way the think, feel, or behave.
It is so frustrating for me and so many in my field to experience this sort of mindset from so many so often. And parents can benefit as well from this concept. Yes children are born with a certain temperament, but what they learn from the way parents interact and react to them will teach them how to manage their temperament in beneficial ways.
Can people and parents especially please learn about their own psychological well being and understand that there are so many things to learn and so much people can do to be healthier.
People can choose how to think which does directly impact their feelings and behavior. People learn to be happy, optimistic, and healthy.
Naturally there are illness, disease and disorders of brain function and that can be assessed and treated also, but long before medications or clinical intervention is required there are tons of skills and learned behaviors that can be improved upon to promote health ...positive moods, interpersonal skills, safety, emotional management, etc etc...
People are not just as they are... they are a sum of genetics and learned behaviors! Our hard wiring sets the limits so to speak but all interactions can teach us something...we can choose to learn from our experiences.
Please seek this information and understand human behavior..you are a human for heaven's sake and interact with other humans constantly..kind of important ..YES?
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